Sunday
An European-Ukrainian Love Story
Believe it or not, but long-distance relationships are a real thing. And even more so, such stories often end with a wedding!
Once upon a time there was a girl Olia. She was smart and beautiful! And everything in her life was fine: she had a beloved husband and three healthy and clever children. She lived and enjoyed her life until it turned out that her husband was a man with a small letter “m”. He was tired, poor thing, to work for the good of his family and decided to live at his leisure and abandoned them. After a while, on advice of her friend, Olia registered on a dating site.
His name was Sandro and he lived in Croatia. He had long dreamed of a large and friendly family. Communication came easy, they seemed to know each other for a hundred years. On New Year's holidays, he came to her, showered children with gifts and surrounded them all with care and attention. Olia and Sandro could not get away from each other during these short holidays. It became clear – this is love! Several times he came to visit them and every time it was harder to part. When Sandro made an offer to Olia, children fully supported their mother's decision to move to another country. Now they are officially a Big Friendly Family. In Croatia, Sandro opened a new company, naming it by their names.
Here is a story not made up. Tales are real and even princes exist!
Friday
Dating Sites
Many people long and unsuccessfully try to meet their soulmate, but whether Cupid completely forgot about their existence, or ill fate has a grudge. So one could reason in such a way, sighing silently and go with the flow of life hoping for good luck. But! If we recall that our fate is in our hands, then boundless horizons open before us.
One of the most easily accessible and modern ways to build relationships is datin cs, losers and nerds, as well as dolls from Silicon Valley in the pursuit of easy money. But statistics is an inexorable thing, and it claims that 30 percent of all modern marriages are couples from the network. Many people are afraid to get acquainted online, believing that they will be mistaken for losers. That they will be considered as a product or a fat wallet. That dating online is only for one day, virtual dating does not allow you to get to know a person well. That dating on the Internet is a life-threatening scam. Well, that's up to you, but what does a dictionary say about prejudice? Prejudice is an opinion without thinking. Codswallop, in a word. After all, on the other side of the screen exactly the same people as you are sitting. Where else could people living in a modern and madly dynamic world get to know? In the subway or maybe in the library?
What are the chances of success and what to do? Reduce the level of anxiety and feel free to go in search of love. On a dating site, the chances increase a hundred times, because in any corner of our planet a soul mate can wait for you.
Thursday
Nearly one-fourth of young adults are looking for love through dating websites or apps.
This relatively new form of courtship can give you access to a large pool of potential partners. It also presents a unique set of challenges.
For example, you’ve probably heard about – or have personally experienced –one of the following reasons: He was shorter than his profile said he was, she looked different in person than she did in her photos, or he was talkative over text but it was like pulling teeth at dinner.
In other words, a person’s profile – and the messages sent before a date – might not capture who a person really is.
So if you’re honest and tell few lies, you think that others are being honest as well. If you’re looking for love but are lying to get it, there’s a good chance that you’ll think others are lying to you, too.
Therefore, telling little lies for love is normal, and we do it because it serves a purpose – not just because we can.
Let's meet?
IF finding true love were an exact science, we wouldn’t need matchmakers, singles bars or, of course, online dating services.Like job seekers who take the Myers-Briggs personality test to help steer them to suitable professions, we’d simply take a relationship test, whose results would identify our most compatible types of mates and rule out the frogs. Problem solved. Of course, Cosmopolitan magazine has been running pop psychology love quizzes “Which Bachelor Is Right for You?,” “Is He Naughty or Nice?” for decades, prompting young women the world over to assess how sexually or socially compatible they might be with their objects of desire. Now, a handful of dating Web sites are competing to impose some science, or at least some structure, on the quest for love by using different kinds of tests to winnow the selection process. In short, each of these sites is aiming to be the Netflix of love. Instead of using a proprietary algorithm to recommend movies you might enjoy, based on your past choices, however, these dating sites offer you a list of romantic candidates whose selection is based on proprietary analyses of personality characteristics or biological markers. At the end of the day, however, it may be that the success of such sites is attributable not so much to their proprietary methods as to their choosy, self-selected members who don’t want to wink at and woo the first person whose profile they read online. The sites attract cohorts of people interested in slowing down the online dating and mating process, in finding out more information about potential partners or in ruling out unlikely suitors before they graduate to the meet-and-greet stage. THE more advanced the partner prediction sites, the more they may actually serve a more old-fashioned role. The sites provide background details on a person’s family, education, aspirations, character, genetic traits and general health of the type that was once public information in farming or immigrant communities or even in hunter-gatherer societies. Indeed, at least from the point of view of evolutionary science, you’d be better off spending $50 and more likely to find a mate by using a premium dating site than by dropping $50 on drinks in the uncertain waters of singles bars.
The study found that 69 percent of people admit to doing the Google background check on their date. According to Schilling, "Performing background checks is a positive example of how Aussies are using technology and social media to help screen for potential date breakers.About 54 percent of people say they text in order to organize a time or place for a date, while 53 percent said they use texts to tell their date they had a great time. Millennials and women used texts the most, and 53 percent of women use texts to decline dates.
The study found that 52 percent of people prefer dates to be arranged “in person,” and a good 80 percent of them also said break-ups should be done face-to-face.
It’s really no surprise here, but four in five people say it’s easier to be more fun and witty online because you have time to craft the perfect response.
Try to Figure Out What They’re Looking For
This isn’t as cut and dry as it seems. While there are plenty of people who are indeed on Tinder and other platforms for the sake of finding relationships, they are also widely used for hook-ups and simply to further one’s own vanity. But generally, these people are easy to differentiate. If someone just wants sex they will probably suggest you either go to their place or they come to yours, so you can “Netflix and Chill,” which is just code for sex. A lot of people actually have “No hook-ups” in their bio, which gives you an idea that they’re looking for something a little more serious.
There are also a lot of people who are on these apps and sites just for attention. These people tend to match everyone just to feel better about themselves and try to get you to follow them on every social network they have a profile on. They will also never meet you, because they are simply on there for the ego boost and not to actually meet people.
Frankly, the best way to figure this out is to ask. Not right off the bat, but if you aren’t sure where things are going, you can ask in the midst of a conversation. If they respond that they want to meet new people and possibly find a relationship, that would be the perfect time to ask for a date.
Frankly, online dating can be a bit weird and awkward, especially for folks who didn’t grow up socializing on the internet. But if you’re single and looking to mix things up a little bit, give it a shot. After all, the worst that can happen is you have material with which to write articles about the do’s and dont’s of online dating.
Stay on the Date, At Least for a Little While
When you finally do meet in person, it’s important to be as polite as possible, even if they look nothing like the image you had in your head. I’ve literally shown up on a date and only found out when I got there that the person was weeks away from giving birth. I didn’t leave or sneak off “to the bathroom,” but I stayed and had about an hour-long conversation, not because I’m a saint, but because I could not imagine someone telling me to meet them and then just never showing up. Most importantly, you can never be worse off for simply knowing someone. Even if the date is terrible, you are meeting someone who you probably would never have met, and your life is that much richer.
Accept Rejection
Does this seem like common sense? Because I have never been more embarrassed on a date than when I hear horror stories from the woman about other men she’s met online. And really, most of it comes about as a result of rejection. While the theory behind matching someone is that you are both mutually interested in each other, that does not mean you are halfway to dating. If a girl says “No” when you ask them on a date, take it in stride, and then move on.
Sadly, this isn’t what many men do. You can find an endless supply of screenshots online from women who were having a normal conversation with a guy, and when she says she’s not interested, he suddenly drops about every dirty word you can call a woman in the next message.
This tip also applies when someone flat out doesn’t respond. If you try to start a conversation and get nothing in return, don’t leave twenty more messages or take it personally. Maybe they don’t check it that often, deleted the app from their phone, or just aren’t interested. That’s life. Just be thankful it happened with a stranger from the internet rather than someone you approached at the bar.
The problem is that talking to people digitally really dehumanizes them. We lose track that it’s a person on the other end just like us, and we say things we would never say in person, bad or not, and so we throw out the common unwritten rules of socializing. This is also why it’s better to meet people as soon as both of you are comfortable, so you can put a human to the picture.
Take the Lead in Conversation
Maybe you had an incredible conversation online with someone whom you decide to meet, and then they barely say a word. Meeting a stranger is always awkward, and online dating, especially, lends itself to folks who are shy in social situations. So you would probably be doing yourself a favor if you just lead the conversation (if you don’t know how, study this tutorial), or simply just deal with the awkward first date and see if either one of you would like a much less awkward second date; remember that it often takes 3 encounters to really know if you click with someone.
Temper Your Own Expectations
While getting catfished, or tricked into falling for people who lie about everything (right down to using someone else’s pictures), seems to be the common assumption about meeting someone from the internet, it’s really not that common. It does happen though. This is why you should try to use the internet as a means of meeting people, and use subsequent in-person dates to get to know them. You aren’t meeting someone with the intent of going ring shopping if things go well.
While dating sites have plenty of attractive and very successful people, not everyone will look exactly like their pictures. While I’m not saying you should be expecting a man in a wig to show up, you should kind of automatically assume that their pictures were old or edited, or at the least, something that shows their very best light. Not that that’s always the case, but just keep in mind that you can never truly know someone you haven’t talked to in the flesh.
Don’t Misrepresent Yourself
So maybe you were a football or track star in high school and now you’re a few years removed and about twenty pounds heavier — leave those varsity pictures where they belong (in a shoebox!), and upload something more recent. While meeting people and dating shouldn’t be all about vanity, you don’t want someone’s first thought upon meeting you to be, “Whoa, he looks nothing like his pictures.”
Not only is it insanely distracting, but it’s starting the potential relationship with dishonesty rather than trust. This also goes for exaggerating, or outright lying, when it comes to your job, education, or anything you find yourself tempted to say to get a meeting in person. I guarantee if they find out you tricked them, they will assume everything you’ve said was a lie.
And this isn’t to say that if you’re overweight, don’t bother. Dating sites have huge audiences, so you’ll find every stripe and color of person you could possibly imagine, and by misrepresenting yourself, you could be missing out on the people who like you for who you actually are. But on that note, not everyone on the other end will be honest with themselves, so…
Do not rush.
My #1 best piece of advice for singles is to date like you are The Bachelor or The Bachelorette! When you are in the early stages of dating, it's really helpful to date a few different potential future partners at a time (before you define the relationship with one of them, of course!). The beauty of dating multiple people before exclusivity is that you are able to date in a more objective manner without putting all of your eggs in one basket and becoming emotionally attached to Mr. Wrong. You will be able to more clearly pinpoint the positive and negative qualities about your suitors, and allow your heart and mind guide who you think can give you what you desire in a more serious relationship.
A new stage.
Give people chances and date outside of your comfort zone. Date people you normally wouldn't date, especially if that same type isn't working out for you. Your type may have changed and you don't even know it yet.
Everyone is hung up on someone, whether it’s real or in their head. You need to move past your ex boyfriend or that woman you went out with that never called you back. We have a tendency to compare people we meet to the ex files, and in order to find someone great, you need to quit this self sabotaging behavior. You placed this person who did you wrong, or never gave you a chance on a pedestal and they don’t deserve to be there. You based 'your list' on these people that didn’t work out, so toss your list!
Open dialogue.
Contrary to common dating advice — talking about exes on a first date is actually a great way to learn about the other person and quickly see if there are any red flags that they are not relationship material. While going into too much detail and rehashing the past can ruin the romantic mood, asking a few light questions about past relationships can be very revealing. For example, 'Are you still in touch with your ex?' or 'When did your last relationship end?' What you're looking for is that they speak respectfully about their ex, and don't immediately start venting about what that person did wrong. Bonus points if they have managed to stay friends, or at least that it ended on good terms. This shows real maturity, which is what you want in a partner. You'll also get a sense if there are still unresolved issues that might effect you if you get involved with this person.
The best piece of advice I have for singles on this day is to be the type of person you want to attract. By that, I mean to be the best you can be so you attract the best. Too many people are tying to fill voids in themselves by looking for a partner who has the quality they lack. This may work on a surface level but it doesn't work on a deeper level.Sometimes looking for initial 'chemistry' can be an extremely limiting factor. Half the time That initial pull is indicative of lust, not even love, so if you are intrigued after a first date, give it a fair shot to see if chemistry grows with getting to know each other.
Wednesday
MARIAM_SUNNY: COME IN MY WORLD..
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Monday
Chatting with Attractive Woman Alexandra
- I'm a 24 y/o female, Aquarius
- I live in Kiev, Ukraine
- I can speak Russian(Fluent), Ukrainian(Fluent), English(Good)
- Profession: Teacher
- Have no children
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